Story of a Christian Woman, Keeping Her Baby After Being Raped
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The story itself is well told and believable. Dynah is heading for the American Christian dream--pretty, pop, doing well at school, prospective pastor boyfriend etc. All of this is shattered past rape when she is walking dwelling alone one nighttime. The resulting pregnancy exposes the hypocrisy of the mostly Christians around her who in their different means brainstorm pushing her towards having an abortion. After all, her circumstances are infrequent and surely God would understand.....
Dynah's dilemma opens upwardly deep wounds in her ain family equally well as in the lives of those performing the abortions in the clinics. Although some of the dialogue and scenes were a little anticipated, I liked that the author touched on the fact that abortion tin upshot every person involved for a very long fourth dimension, some may never get over the trauma or concrete consequences. I wasn't sure nearly the supposed link between abortion and increased chance of chest cancer but information technology wouldn't surprise me if information technology was proven i day.
The obvious message of the volume is that every life is precious to God and created by Him in the womb, regardless the circumstance. That He can redeem any state of affairs and bring peace to those that believe it is impossible. I liked that Rivers chose to focus on moving forrad rather than habitation on the human activity of rape itself or of the attempts to place and bring the offender to justice. The book carries the pro-life message simply shows how difficult it might exist to take that stance when someone is seemingly solitary with their life-changing decisions. However, Rivers makes information technology articulate that the person doesn't have to be lonely--God is always present and waiting for the cry of help from a repentant soul.
This book is non suitable for children and may disturb some sensitive readers. Although the rape itself is not detailed, some details of the abortion procedures are mentioned. There is no bad language and no graphic violence. I note that some readers felt that the psychological trauma of the rape itself had not been considered and that the story followed a kind-of predictable happy-ever-after pattern. I don't concur with this. The aftermath struggles that the principal character faces are traumatic and make the important betoken that all of united states of america need to learn to trust God completely. She struggles with guilt, shame and questions why God immune the feel which shattered her perfect life....that is not unrealistic nor is it a cliche. If Rivers had introduced likewise much psychological trauma it would have made the book more graphic and would take inverse the focus from God'south plan of redemption to the crime, victim and criminal. The reality is that all of us are broken through sin--sin in our own lives and the sin of others confronting us--the focus needs always to be on God and the price that has already been paid by Jesus on the cross for our sin.
Although not perfect, I rate this highly and hope it volition influence those because abortions, those working in the clinics/hospitals, those providing funding for services and most chiefly, those counseling people dealing with choices they have made in the by and the consequences of them.
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Yuck.
I'm tempted to just leave it at that, simply my frustration with this book deserves more than than a one-word review.
To start, I can't really remember the controlling process when I chose to read this. I know it fulfilled a category in a reading claiming I was casually participating in, but so would a thousand other books. Perhaps I should have known better than to read a Christian novel about rape and pregnancy, but (lik
Warning: This book (and this review) talk over rape, pregnancy, and abortion.Yuck.
I'm tempted to just leave it at that, just my frustration with this book deserves more than a one-word review.
To start, I can't actually think the conclusion-making process when I chose to read this. I know information technology fulfilled a category in a reading challenge I was casually participating in, but so would a thousand other books. Peradventure I should have known meliorate than to read a Christian novel virtually rape and pregnancy, only (like, 5 years ago) I read and loved Redeeming Love by the same author, so I figured I was relatively prophylactic.
Booooo.
This isn't even a real novel. It'south three hundred pages of pro-life propaganda. I think what pisses me off most about this fact is that Rivers could have told this story with a protagonist who got pregnant subsequently having sex, merely instead she chose to use rape as a means to communicate her agenda. Her storytelling choices were disgusting, insensitive, and manipulative, to say the to the lowest degree. At one indicate her poor main character explained that being raped wasn't even that bad; information technology was just physical pain that went abroad pretty quickly. No, what really hurt her was the way her loved ones tried to pressure her into getting an abortion. Maybe at that place are real people who experience that manner, only it was extremely obvious that Rivers wasn't interested in telling a story near sexual violence and healing. She was just interested in convincing her readers that ballgame is the evilest matter on the planet.
I don't really care almost her stance on ballgame; this review isn't a criticism or a support of her stance on that topic. But I am completely disgusted past the way she chose to tell her story and limited her opinions. Even though I'grand a Christian, I almost never read Christian fiction and I recall it's going to stay that way for a long fourth dimension. I experience so sad for any rape victims who picked this upwardly hoping for encouragement or compassion and instead got a sermon, and not even a very proficient sermon at that. Even the discussion questions at the end of the book were all about abortion and had nothing to do with sexual violence, and so there's no possible alibi to brand for the author's calendar. This is a pro-life opinion piece which is so clunky that when it tries to demonize the pro-choice group, fifty-fifty its stereotypes are stereotypes. I'yard so sad that Rivers dragged the sensitive topic of rape into this but for cheap manipulation and drama. This book was gross, gross, gross. (Writing an aroused review is cathartic, though.)
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While she struggles with the decision of what to practice and her faith, her family struggles and nearly falls apart in the process. This is a hard topic for anyone to talk over and while the novel itself is an excellent read (Rivers is by far one of my favorite authors), I was surprised to observe out how close the issue was for the author
The Atonement Child by Francine Rivers follows the story of a young higher girl who is raped and finds herself pregnant. Yeah, it's intense material and an intense read.While she struggles with the decision of what to do and her religion, her family struggles and nearly falls apart in the process. This is a hard topic for anyone to discuss and while the novel itself is an first-class read (Rivers is by far i of my favorite authors), I was surprised to discover out how close the issue was for the author. When asked which book has been the hardest to write and why, Rivers responded: "The Atonement Child was the nearly personal and difficult to write because I had to face up my ain abortion experience. Added to the considerable research I did, and women who shared their experiences with me, I went through an intensive post-traumatic stress Bible report for post-abortive women at our local pregnancy counseling center. Reliving all aspects of my abortion determination and experience was excruciating – just healing. After 20-six years of being imprisoned by guilt and shame, I was free through the power and love of God. Though the book was the nigh heart-wrenching to write, information technology also proved to exist the near life changing. I've received endless letters from other post-abortive women and have learned my feel is not unique. Our nation is filled with wounded men and women. The graphic symbol of Hannah is based on my story, Doug is based on Rick's, and Evie is based on my female parent's."
It's an incredible story that is beautifully written. It's honest and doesn't carbohydrate coat how difficult a situation like that would be. Whatever your thoughts are about abortion, I think its a story worth reading.
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While I enjoyed the principal grapheme and her love
Later on reading several other books by Francine Rivers, I was highly disappointed by this novel. While most of her books have a articulate evangelical message just bordering on "preachy," this ane was breathy in its aims. I sympathise that her goal was to unpack abortion, and the regrets and ramifications it causes; all the same, this volume felt like a con list for the procedure thinly veiled past a "story," rather than a well-written plot about a primal issue.While I enjoyed the main character and her love interest, the remainder of the characters fell flat. They were but tools used by the author to show another pro-life point. Also, I feel similar the psychological wounds of the rape causing Dynah's pregnancy were largely glossed over in order to focus on the writer's goal.
To me, an author, or whatsoever kind of Christian artist should make people ask questions, recall about things in a different mode. Simply in this volume, Rivers but beats her point into the basis with every angle she can get. In doing that, she failed to write an effective novel.
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This book is so worth the read, for many reasons, but information technology particularly gives insight about the damage abortion tin do to a adult female physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I wonder how many women are out there that no one knows what they have gone through or suffered in the course of their lives after having an abortion, whether out of selection or peradventure being forced or coerced into 1. What does God have to say about information technology? Is society's view on the issue an authentic 1 in low-cal of His Give-and-take? This book certainly gives much to think well-nigh.
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This volume is the perfect example of why you lot should never have an abortion, no matter the situation.
20 twelvemonth old Dynah Carey was raped in a park on her fashion abode, she plant out she was significant, She didn't want the babe, because it was conceived in rape. Her boyfriend, or should I say ex started to mentally abuse he
WOW! What a powerful bulletin, God has used Francine Rivers. He breathed life into this book, wow I only cannot explain how helpful this book was. God has ordained you, unto all nations.This book is the perfect example of why y'all should never accept an abortion, no matter the state of affairs.
20 yr onetime Dynah Carey was raped in a park on her way home, she plant out she was meaning, She didn't want the babe, because it was conceived in rape. Her boyfriend, or should I say ex started to mentally abuse her, because he didn't want a married woman that wasn't a virgin. She was also kicked out of her college. A Christian college.
So she went abode. her ex young man'south best friend followed her, because he " Secretly loves her."
5 stars
Anywho when she gets home her parents find out most everything and their not to happy. Her dad wants her to take an abortion and so does Hannah ( Her female parent). She leaves and gets an apartment, and thats when she decides not to have an ballgame, because she has had fourth dimension to think.
I won't spoil anymore, for you.
This book would be great for whatever young woman, I high recommend to pregnant teens. Or in Dynah's case a adult female that was raped. Because nix is more precious than a footling miracle infant. All children are miracles.
God said he has ordained united states earlier we were even thought of, This book is based on the life a rape victim, information technology's pro-life. Pro- Jesus and thats why I liked it so much.
And so she goes to the ballgame clinic, but she doesn't have ane. Her parents are tearing each other ap
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Offset Sentence: It was on a cold January night when the unthinkable, unpardonable happened. I retrieve the kickoff fourth dimension I read this book I was to young to fully comprehend the emotional carnage that this book brings. I had to take breaks, put the book downwardly and read something else, or but not read for a few days.
Some times it's so hard to follow God's word, to
Showtime Judgement: It was on a cold January night when the unthinkable, unpardonable happened. I think the outset time I read this volume I was to young to fully comprehend the emotional carnage that this book brings. I had to take breaks, put the book down and read something else, or just not read for a few days.
Some times it's so hard to follow God'due south word, to practise what He wants. Rivers portray this struggle then beautifully, so real to live.
To date all of Francine Rivers' books had made me await at live in new light.
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God truly uses Francine rivers, and breaths life into her books!!
I do not like Francine Rivers as an author because despite loving the historical research and details she puts in her novels (the Mark of the Lion serial, for example. 1st-century Roman life is presented to the reader
I KNEW I would hate this book only from reading the summary and the fact that Francine Rivers wrote it, but I just had to read it. This has been on my TBR list for a few years now and I finally had to subject field myself to this trainwreck because I freely admit that I am a rubbernecker.I do non like Francine Rivers as an author because despite loving the historical research and details she puts in her novels (the Mark of the Panthera leo series, for example. 1st-century Roman life is presented to the reader in astonishing detail) she gets heavy-handed with the preaching. Not simply that, but she too pushes toxic feminity (submitting to the man, submitting to the pastor, other male lead figures) and this causes the women in her books to make some actually bone-headed decisions.
Like, for example, in this book, Dynah is raped, and and then when she is taken to the hospital, she refuses estrogen therapy (this book was written in the 90's, so today it'd probable be referred to as Plan B) and refers to it every bit an abortifacient. Mind yous, she'd been raped only a few hours before, and pregnancy does not occur until the fertilized egg is implanted into the uterine wall, so a woman does not actually get pregnant until well-nigh 5-15 days afterward sex activity. Merely the author is so staunch in her Christian/pro-life beliefs that plan B is the devil'south work. This is one of the reasons I gave this book i star.
I'm thinking to myself, oh my god, Dynah, yous fucking dumb cunt. If you'd just agreed to have the pills, then yous wouldn't have had to bargain with all the bullshit and grief that would happen eventually in the book.
Another thing that really bothered me was how near the beginning of the book, Dynah is thanking God for everything in her life, and and then after the rape happens, she asks God if she did anyhing to deserve being raped. I mean that in itself is a normal line of reasoning for a religious person to ask after a traumatic event, merely this kind of thing is 1 of the reasons I became an atheist.
If a god truly is a loving i, then he would not allow women to be raped, among other awful things that happen in the world. Just in the mind of the writer, everything happens for a reason, including the sexual assault of a adult female, the unwanted pregnancy that follows, and all the sadness and psychlogical trauma involved.
The title itself pisses me off too. 'Atonement Child' somehow feels like the child was foisted onto Dynah as punishment. Punishment for what? Having the nervus to walk office of the way home (to the dorm) at night after work?
I'd dearest to encounter a novel where Francine Rivers simply focuses on historical research and writing a good story instead of shoving her beliefs downward readers' throats or trying to convince united states that a god that allows awful things to happen "has a programme", because that is a theme/message I've read in all her other books that I've read.
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Merely I merely didn't like very much else about this book. The characters were pretty one-dimentional. The story was predictable. The dialogue was cheesy. The way everything resolved was as well perfect. I've never read Christian fi
I capeesh that this book delves into the controversial moral and intimate subject of abortion. I'thousand glad that the author didn't make all the Christians "good guys" and the non-Christians "bad guys". I'thou glad she shone a light on the hypocrisy that'south rampant in Christianity.But I simply didn't similar very much else virtually this book. The characters were pretty one-dimentional. The story was predictable. The dialogue was cheesy. The way everything resolved was likewise perfect. I've never read Christian fiction before, but I had high hopes that this would exist a though-provoking and deep book, based on the outset. Most a quarter of the style through, though, it just got a piffling to schmaltzy and preachy for me.
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First-class volume! My start Francine Rivers & certainly not my terminal. This touched my heart in so many ways. I loved it.
The Atonement Child was an interesting mixture of thoroughly developed characters undergoing intense trauma mixed with a few secondary players
The story of a protected, adored virgin being brutally raped and dealing with a resulting pregnancy could not take been an easy story to write. The writer did a good job of creating a believable Christian family in crises past allowing united states of america inside their deepest thoughts thereby revealing weakness, doubt, fright, and anger woven with faith, redemption, and hope.The Amende Kid was an interesting mixture of thoroughly adult characters undergoing intense trauma mixed with a few secondary players that seemed a bit flat. While I'm glad to have read the book I did not love it for a few reasons. I felt it hurried key moments of development in the cardinal character, Dynah. The story spiraled out from her forming a generational anthology introducing us to three generations of women each with their ain story of unwanted/inconvenient pregnancy. At times I felt like I'd been wandering in the desert for forty years trying to sort out the timeline. Eventually things snapped back to the current storyline but by midway through it was exuding an almost fairytale similar feeling. The story becomes wildly implausible because everything works out seamlessly right down to the tiniest detail but it'south presented in a "well, with God all things are possible" kinda fashion. And, of course, with God all things are possible so perhaps...
Despite the lower points in that location were moments that shined. The writer excelled at examining marriages and family dynamics by exploring the vast range of emotions felt by Dynah, her parents, and her grandmother. She captured the nuance of Dynah's parents' wedlock and feeling for i some other to perfection.
The greatest declining was in the lack of discussion virtually the choice of adoption. While it was mentioned briefly very petty fourth dimension was spent looking into adoption as a legitimate ways for coping with unwanted pregnancy. Usually the omission of options would not be criteria for ranking a book but information technology is clear the author is using the story every bit a means of helping girls in this situation and I applaud her for doing so. Yet, while Dynah was a 19 year old college student with many options bachelor to her most girls who find themselves pregnant are much younger and adoption is nigh always the very best option. Teens in high school should not and cannot be presented only the options of ballgame or raising a child. Of course, this book was published in 1997 when significant twelve years one-time wasn't quite so commonplace as it is today. And so, maybe if given the adventure to write the aforementioned story prepare in the current time frame this oversight would be attended to more carefully.
Speaking of the year of publication... I defenseless myself thinking, "Why don't they just use their cell telephone?" only to remember they weren't widely in use or quite so small-scale back then. In the same vein I was tickled to retrieve of Dynah and some other graphic symbol, Joe, actually writing letters to one another instead of using email. Oh how the earth has changed! :)
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Information technology'southward bad. So very, very bad. It'south bad in every way a book tin can exist: the plot is full of holes and is so predictable, the interactions and dialogue are i dimensional and lack any of the qualities of real man interaction, the writing menstruum is stuttered, information technology is poorly researched, and it is literally the most judgmental thing I've ever read. And her characters... they are similar paper doll
I read this for a book club and I have to pat myself on the back that I actually made information technology through the entire thing.Information technology'southward bad. And so very, very bad. It's bad in every way a book tin exist: the plot is full of holes and is so predictable, the interactions and dialogue are one dimensional and lack any of the qualities of real man interaction, the writing flow is stuttered, information technology is poorly researched, and it is literally the most judgmental thing I've e'er read. And her characters... they are similar paper doll people with no depth or existent personality. And she apparently did zero actual research when crafting her settings. The offset half of the volume takes place at a college. At 1 point, her chief character goes to talk to her professor. The proper noun of said professor? "Professor Provost." Professor. Provost. I wish I were joking. Alas, I am non. (If you don't get why this is mind-numbingly dense: Professor is an academic role at a university. Provost is also an academic role at a university. It's like naming her character "Dr. Nurse.").
The subject area of the book is ballgame and allow me be transparent. I'g pro-pick but respect diverse opinions on this issue. People are entitled to feel however they feel about sensitive and personal topics like ballgame. But, and this leads me to the absolute worst part of this volume, when y'all kickoff trying to apply misinformation or out and out lies to push people to your side, you've moved from having a heartfelt opinion to being intentionally manipulative and deceitful. And that is what this volume is. In that location are many, many examples of factual inaccuracies in this volume with which she tries to leverage the readers towards her pro-life perspective. But I will simply rip apart two of them for the sake of time.
ane) She references "Postal service-Abortion Syndrome" as a condition women who have had an ballgame ofttimes endure, which supposedly ravages them with guilt. If y'all have no awareness of psychology, information technology sounds plausibly like a real condition. Except it'due south not. It'due south non an bodily syndrome. It isn't in the DSM. It isn't diagnosed past bodily mental wellness professionals. And despite her claims, that isn't considering of some "medical bias" that causes people not to research this issue. It's considering it HAS been researched extensively and in that location isn't evidence it really exists. Some women experience trauma tied to their ballgame experiences and that is real. But that does not seem to be about women who have an abortion. There is no evidence that abortions themselves are significantly associated with a measurable and specific mental health status or a deterioration of mental health. And there certainly isn't testify of any causal human relationship betwixt abortions and the development of Mail-Abortion Syndrome specifically (if you lot know anything about causation, yous know in part why her claim is so bananas). This syndrome isn't existent. And if yous don't want to believe me, here'southward a quote from an American Psychologist periodical article on this very issue:
"The most rigorous studies indicated that within the United States, the relative risk of mental wellness bug among adult women who accept a single, legal, first-trimester abortion of an unwanted pregnancy is no greater than the risk amidst women who deliver an unwanted pregnancy. Evidence did non support the claim that observed associations between abortion and mental health bug are caused by ballgame per se equally opposed to other preexisting and co-occurring risk factors. Nearly adult women who terminate a pregnancy do non feel mental health problems. Some women practice, however. It is important that women's varied experiences of abortion exist recognized, validated, and understood." (Major et al. 2009)
2) She as well discusses ballgame "causing breast cancer" in the after sections of the volume. Shocking, no? What'south a scarier boogie man than abortion? Cancer. And she claims (via dialogue from i of her characters) that of course we Americans wouldn't have heard of this, because the scientists that research this tin can't go their research funded or findings published. Except... Guess what?? Again, this HAS been researched extensively. In fact, there was a study done about 10 years ago with 83,000 participants (if y'all know anything almost research, that is a huge sample) and they constitute no clan between intentional abortion and chest cancer (it's from the Lancet in 2004). In that location are some studies that find an association between multiple miscarriages and breast cancer (although virtually enquiry is pretty skeptical of this likewise). In this literature, miscarriage is oftentimes referred to as spontaneous abortion, and then maybe she just skimmed studies and didn't sympathize what she was reading. But given some of the other nonsense included in the volume, I'm going to guess that no, she didn't in fact bother to do whatever real research.
This book is basically the LifeNews website turned into a novel. Information technology's only as barren of fact and clearly biased, and the writing is even worse in quality. It is literally the worst book I have ever read in my life.
Only hey, I finished it. Somehow.
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Anyway, I dear this book. My most favorite and heartbreaking part was the ending...
When a girl and her swain was in the abortion clinic, Jesus was there with them saying No, I love you. Don't practise this. Trust me.
And when the daughter went into the test room to have the baby aborted, Jesus was crucified once again - God's Amende Child for our sins.
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This book brought me to tears when I read it. I loved the power and meaning of this book that shows our path may non e'er be God's path for us. Fifty-fifty though we observe pain and suffering in life and on the path that we have, God always has a purpose for all of it.
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Abortion has never afflicted me personally, but, as an emotionally sensitive person, this novel still moved me nonetheless. Dynah's struggle about what to do with her unborn child, and her want to exercise the right thing without knowing what it is, made for very gripping reading. Though it wasn't perfect--that's why I didn't give it a perfect score--the overwhelming emotional themes make up for any complaints I could come with.
Content Concerns: Themes of ballgame, rape, and sexual practice ou
A Quickie ReviewAbortion has never affected me personally, merely, as an emotionally sensitive person, this novel withal moved me yet. Dynah'south struggle about what to do with her unborn child, and her desire to exercise the right matter without knowing what information technology is, made for very gripping reading. Though it wasn't perfect--that'south why I didn't give it a perfect score--the overwhelming emotional themes brand upward for any complaints I could come up with.
Content Concerns: Themes of abortion, rape, and sex outside of marriage, too equally emotional intensity, are all through this book. Anyone who is unable to sympathize or bargain with such textile should probably stay away.
Score: 4.v/5
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She was raped merely the baby that now grows in her, he is innocent so what to do adjacent?
I've read a few of Francine Rivers and they were great. Marta's Legacy, for example, I thoroughly enjoyed. Merely this... not really.
For one, I felt the main character, Dynah, was portrayed as much too perfect to be a real person. The start of the book seemed to expla
This volume I had mixed feelings towards as I read it. Ane signal I'd get bellyaching with the characters, another point I would begin to call up the book was getting better, until information technology simply takes another big downfall in the next few pages.I've read a few of Francine Rivers and they were great. Marta's Legacy, for example, I thoroughly enjoyed. But this... not really.
For ane, I felt the main graphic symbol, Dynah, was portrayed as much too perfect to be a real person. The outset of the book seemed to explain that she lived a life under rather extreme protection, no bug and bug through her xviii years of life before the rape... that'due south not what reality is truly similar. Anybody has hard times no thing who they are. And because of this, I felt I couldn't really relate to Dynah. And non to mention a lot of the book was extremely predictable.
Joe was a groovy character. He had a pretty bad past that he turned away from when he met God. He was probably a grapheme many would resonate with; he was the most realistic one. He was very caring and understanding, and tried to aid people as much equally he could. I idea that was crawly.
(view spoiler)[I had a big problem with the fact Dynah just went along and proposed to Joe in the middle of a infirmary. Yep, I know it was because God told her he was the i, but that ending just frustrated me immensely, they didn't fifty-fifty engagement at all, and only went from friends to taking a big leap to fiancee. Irksome down, guys, y'all're still teenagers!!Please! (hide spoiler)]
I usually like deep, heart-touching books, but this ane was depressing - and non in a skilful way. Yes, it's a rather deep subject to write on - abortion and rape, and the volume opened my optics to the reality of some womens' lives, but I'm sure information technology could've been dealt with ameliorate. The ending didn't fifty-fifty leave me with a good feeling.
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